How to stop training using command window??

I'm using matlabpool to speed up computations. the issue is, while using

net.trainParam.showWindow = true;
net.trainParam.showCommandLine = true;
net.trainParam.show= 5;
[net,tr] = train(net,inputs,targets,'useParallel','yes','showResources','yes');

there is NO training window appear, so, i cant see plot functions neither stop button.

what if i want to stop the training using command window? and if i want to show some plots while training, what should i do?

using matlab 2012.