just got it to work!
i bought i new bluetooth dongel trust 18187-03 but this din't help. Had something to do with the drivers but still no connection in matlab. Reinstalled my windows 10 pc that took me a day. Still no connection...
found the sollution on https://superuser.com/questions/1017867/make-windows-10-recognize-bluetooth-dongle-as-bluetooth
"for windows GUI Bluetooth features to activate, there cannot be any other installed drivers or interfaces. For me in my case, windows didn't active the features until I had uninstalled the stock drivers (CSR Wireless Stack). Basically, Windows needs to be using the "Generic Bluetooth Radio" drivers for the features to be activated."
Matlab uses the windows GUI for bluetooth recognition but the Arduino IDE does not. So it has to work in windows and not third party software like bluesoleil...
at least a have a clean pc now :-/
